Judy, heartfelt condolences to you and the girls. I don't know if you recall, but I was at your wedding with Andrew Lebow, and we were so thrilled for our dear friend, Sam. We could plainly see he had found the perfect match!
It's almost impossible to believe he's gone and that it's been decades since we sat together in Hewlett HS Spanish class...fyi: no surprise, he was waaaay ahead of me in math and science, so we didn't share those classes. But I do have a favorite memory from Spanish, which anyone who was in Senorita Lucas's Spanish 4 our junior year will undoubtedly recall. It still makes me laugh!
Miss Lucas had a habit of calling attention to anyone who was daydreaming by asking, "Estas enamorado?" (Are you in love?) Most people were sufficiently embarrassed by her question to straighten up. But not Sam. He turned the tables, when one memorable day, she interrupted our lesson with the familiar "Samuel, estas enamorado?" Without missing a beat, he replied, "Si Senority, con usted." I don't think it needs any translation because Srta. Lucas, being young and single (and attractive) back then, turned red as a beet, while the rest of us, needless to say, lost it. Not sure how many minutes it took for her to get the class back under control, but Sam just sat there with a huge grin.
All of which is to say, he was a unique, big personality and full of affection for his friends and will be deeply missed!
With love,
Jane (nee) Calem